Pressures of beauty

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TAG your it...Encore!!!

I got tagged again for the umpteenth time by the beautiful blogger KLBGLAM- but I love it b/c I am enjoying learning so much about the other bloggers and you gals learning about me...This was a great game to create unity and I hope we all continue to uplift and grow together. I won't be tagging anyone cause mostly everyone has already been tagged, but if I think of anyone, I will be sure to include you! Here it goes....

My Questions:

Where do you see yourself in 10 years?

In 10 years I want to be established in my career as a principal, but still be able to express my love for fashion in some way (ex. freelance stylist). I also want to be moved out of Texas and raising a beautiful family with peace and stability. 

What are you trying to accomplish this year?

This year my goals are to grow stronger in Christ and push myself to be the best I can be in life, school, relationships, etc. I want to find stability and possible open a small business or create some path for me to earn income while completing school and rely less on others. 

How do you indulge?

I indulge on thrifting and fine cuisine. Last year I stopped shopping at the mall and fell in love with Ebay and thrift stores - It is my escape when I need a break. In addition, I LOVE to cook. I faithfully watch cooking channels and love creating dishes to practice...Expensive dishes on a college student budget :/

If you were stranded on a deserted island, what THREE things would you have to have?

1. Bible- I definitely would need guidance and divine strength. 

2. Ipad- I need to keep in touch with the world and of course my blog :)

3. Steak & Mushrooms- There's no better hearty combination! lol

Has blogging brought any changes to your life?

Blogging has given me a way to be heard and express my love for fashion and empowering women. I want to be a blessing to others and at the end of the day....that's why this blog was created. 

Whats your fave hair product?

Silk Elements MegaSilk Heat Protection Spray- This spray helps prevent heat damage, controls my natural frizz, gives perfect light-weight shine and smells AMAZING! 

Whats your favorite scent?

2006 Betsey Johnson Perfume- Even though it's discontinued, I stay stocked and get sooo many compliments. I love woody and sweet smells and this has the perfect balance. I never will get tired of this!

What makes for a perfect night for you?

A perfect night for me would be dinner on the water watching the sunset, doing a little fishing, and completing the night with the song "Let's Chill" by guy! 

What do you love about yourself?

I love my giving/caring spirit and my ability to remain humble/calm in tough situations. I haven't always been this way..so I am abundantly grateful for God bringing me closer to the woman I want to be for him, myself, and others. 

Whats your go-to beauty product?

Maybelline Falsies Flared- This is the first mascara that made me leave fake lashes alone and gives an instant face boost by itself. 

What do you consider "comfy" attire?

What I consider comfy attire is a neutral bronzed look. I like to wear cropped tees with jeans, ugg boots, and a nice big handbag. 

FAB Giveaway...

Ladies if you get a chance, please go check out the FAB blog Kiwi Fashion & Beauty for a wonderful handbag essential giveaway. One lucky winner will be picked Jan. 5th randomly so HURRY!!!! 

If I were your stylist....MLK Day Edition

Martin Luther King Jr. was one of America's greatest leaders. He felt very strongly about the rights of Black Americans. He felt that everyone, Black or White, should have equal rights. The right to work and make an honest living, the right to vote, the right to a good education, and the right to use all public places. Martin believed in using love instead of hate to settle disagreements. He was a very influential leader, one who will always be remembered and honored in this country. This is possible because in 1983, President Ronald Reagan signed a bill declaring that beginning in 1986, the third Monday of every January would be celebrated as a national holiday known as Martin Luther King Day.

How are you going to celebrate Martin Luther King Day?

Snack Attack...

Hey! Hate to say it, but ladies we ARE what we EAT! Health plays a very important factor in our everyday life and we should not take this as a care-free issue. Many of us are constantly running around trying fad diets, etc. to look the best but it honestly starts from inside. I have seen many "In Shape" people be the unhealthiest, so this is not targeted to anyone..but more of a wake up call to evaluate our diets and replace those fatty snacks with more healthy ones. Don't get scared..We can still have our curves & thickness. I just call it "Curves With A Purpose"!  LET'S GET STARTED and check out my 5 top snackers!

|5| Low-fat plain or flavored yogurt with 100 calories or less

Yogurt is a quick and easy nutritious snack. It provides not only nutrients such as calcium and vitamin D, but also contains probiotics, or the 'good' bacteria of the digestive tract which provide a broad range of health benefits.

|4| String cheese

String cheese is the perfect portable snack that’s packed with protein, zinc, vitamin A and B12. At just 80 calories per serving, string cheese is the ideal way to fill up on the go and avoid all those tempting fast-food signs on the road.

|3| Shrimp & Cocktail Sauce 

Shrimp is remarkably low in calories - with four large shrimp having only twenty-two total. Plus, the protein content of shrimp (almost eighteen grams in four of them) is great for building lean body mass when combined with an exercise program. Foods that are high in protein such as shrimp are also more satisfying - so there's less risk of overeating. Shrimp is clean eating at its best.

NOTE:It's best to go light on the cocktail sauce if you're eating shrimp cocktail at a restaurant since it can be high in sodium and sugar. Cocktail sauce does have some redeeming value though. Since it's made with ketchup, it contains lycopenes - a carotenoid that's heart healthy.

|2| Turkey Jerky

Because moisture and fat is removed from the meat during the preparation process, it is an excellent source of protein (as much as 15g of protein per serving size) and is generally 97% Fat Free. BUT...Keep in mind though that all jerky meat-types are somewhat different when it comes to calories, fat, and protein per serving size. 

|1|Pretzels 

Pretzels can be a healthy snack, with vitamins, minerals and fiber, and whole-wheat pretzels contain even more fiber. Pretzels can be helpful in losing weight because are low in calories, and they are a tasty treat many of us enjoy. Pretzels are also low in saturated and total fat.

SO...WHAT SNACK ARE YOU TRADING IN??

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If I were your stylist....

Fab Feature: Niesha Bell

This month's "fab feature" is an amazing woman. I met her through my cousin and happy to say she is such a sweet person. When she's not busy playing mommy to her son, you can catch her looking haute. I picked her because she has FAB fashion-sense and is another positive woman doing great things for herself and those around her. Thanks Niesha! 

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HAPPY NEW YEAR LADIES!!!!!

I enjoyed bringing in the new year @ church and spending time with my honey...I know God has so much lined up in my life and I am ready to start the quest. #chasingdreams

Sooo I had the honor of being "TAGGED" by the adorable Miss Dre @ http://www.soshewritesbymissdre.com make sure you stop by and check her out!

Questions:

1. What makes you happy?

Spending time with family and helping others. It brings ultimate Joy to my heart to know I made someone feel better. 

2. What do you love most about yourself?

I love my giving spirit and my intelligence

3. What is the best thing anyone has ever done for you?

All the support during my brother's death

4. How would you describe love?

Embracing life...it's the happiness you feel everyday when you open your eyes. 

5. Do you pick your friends like you pick your fruit? lol

I can count my best friends on one hand and they have been down with me since 6th grade..at times I wish I had more, but at the end of the day I know they are TRUE FRIENDS and I'm thankful

6. Are you missing someone right now? If so, who?

Pieces to my family history...I just started genealogy and I wish I could fit the pieces to the puzzle a lot easier and have my ancestors around.

7. What is the most influential book you’ve read?

Hill Harper: The Conversation- he laid  issues in my lap so that I could no longer ignore them and offered courage and assistance to make a change. This book was so honest and open. It made me acknowledge and face things that were hidden within the black family.  

8. What is the most influential movie you’ve watched? 

Eat.Pray.Love

9. Who’s your favorite reality tv star?

I love Emily from Love & Hip Hop. Her fashion sense is the bomb.com and she is so humble....God has big plans for her. 

10. What’s your current favorite music video?

@ This time-PARTY by Beyonce...so fun and has a 90s vibe which I love 

11. What’s your favorite song?

Let's Chill-Guy This will FOREVER be the best song invented :D

THIS WAS SOO FUN!!!!! 

HERE ARE MY 11 QUESTIONS FOR YOU... TAG YOUR IT

1. What is one thing you would change?

2. Who is the most influential person in your life?

3. What puts a smile on your face?

4. What do you feel is your purpose?

5. What fashion era is your favorite?

6. What's one "Unexpected" thing about you?

7. Do you believe in Love?

8. Live. Laugh.______

9. You can't live without?

10. Blogs/Blogging gives me?

11. I want to see more of _____ on Midweekescape?

Christmas RECAP

HO HO HO Ladies...I  hope each of you had a FAB CHRISTMAS!!!! I was so caught up in being with my family and loved ones that I did not get to take any pics of my outfit this Christmas season, but I know many of you were stunning! This year, surprisingly, I kept it very simple and rocked grey and black with a pop of blue suede. Here is a similar recap of what I wore this holiday. I PROMISE TO START HAVING MORE PICTURES :D ENJOY!

WHAT DID YOU WEAR |SPEAK UP| ????